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本书详述了咨询室里发生的动人故事，更难能可贵的是那些散落在只言片语间的智慧。对于不了解心理咨询过程的人来说，读这本书能给他们一种全新的体验。作者巧妙地绘制了心理分析师的自画像，也向读者展示了咨询室里所发生的一切。相信无论是需要咨询，还是提供咨询的人，都能从中获得启示。

开始

我们怎么会被一个无法讲述的故事所掌控

关于笑声

赞美如何会让自信丢失

一份名为疼痛的礼物

一座安全屋

说谎

关于秘密

情侣间不存在的东西

忽视的激情

关于亲密

正面越大，反面越大

关爱

在家里

偏执性妄想是如何减少痛苦和预防灾难的

情感丧失的恢复

为什么父母会羡慕嫉妒自己的孩子

想要不可能的事

关于憎恶

痴情如何让我们远离爱

改变

对失去的恐惧如何让我们失去所有

悲观如何阻止我们放弃爱

关于丢钱包

家庭变化

为何我们会陷入一个又一个的危机

关于令人厌烦

哀悼未来

愤怒如何能让我们远离悲伤

关于当一个病人

回到过去

承受死亡

离开

穿越寂静

关于终结

从梦中醒来

致谢

译后记

斯蒂芬•格罗斯（Stephen Grosz）出生于美国印地安纳州，先后求学于伯克利大学和牛津大学。在过去的25年中，他一直在从事心理分析师的工作，同时，他也在精神分析学会教授临床技术，在伦敦大学学院教授精神分析论。他的事迹见于《金融时报周末杂志》（Financial Times Weekend Magazine）和《格兰塔》（Granta）。《咨询室的秘密》是他根据自己的临床实践写就的一本新书。

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The truth of the matter is this: there is a bit of Matt in each of us. At one time or another, we all try to silence painful emotions. But when we succeed in feeling nothing we lose the only means we have of knowing what hurts us, and why.

Emily's parents had made her the problem so that they did not have to deal with their own problems.

Psychoanalysts are fond of pointing out that the past is alive in the present. But the future is alive in the present too. The future is not some place we are going to, but an idea in our mind now. It is something we're creating, that in turn creates us. The future is a fantasy that shapes our present.

Live well when you can, die well when you have to.

but it was only after several months of therapy that she told me that she was having an affair with her children’s nanny , a woman who had been working for the family for the past seven years, since shortly after the birth of her first child. Now – contrary to an agreement with her husband – Mrs C. was secretly trying to get pregnant because she could not bear the thought of losing her nanny.

The author Karen Blixen said, ‘All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story or tell a story about them.’ But what if a person can’t tell a story about his sorrows? What if his story tells him?

Experience has taught me that our childhoods leave in us stories like this – stories we never found a way to voice, because no one helped us to find the words. When we cannot find a way of telling our story, our story tells us – we dream these stories, we develop symptoms, or we find ourselves acting in ways we don’t understand.

书籍介绍

本书详述了咨询室里发生的动人故事，更难能可贵的是那些散落在只言片语间的智慧。对于不了解心理咨询过程的人来说，读这本书能给他们一种全新的体验。作者巧妙地绘制了心理分析师的自画像，也向读者展示了咨询室里所发生的一切。相信无论是需要咨询，还是提供咨询的人，都能从中获得启示。